HOW TO WOO A GIRL WITH ILLUSTRATIONS
Take care of yourself and get to know her. Be sensitive and caring, and find something that you can bond over. Be honest with her and make her feel important.
Respect her and be willing to follow her lead. Be original and romantic, and know when's the right time to make your move.
1
Break the ice.
This can seem scary to do, but once you have done this, holding a conversation
and laughing will be easy, and you will be able to build a friendship. There
are lots of different ways that you can break the ice, but just remember to
make a good first impression. You don't want her to remember you for being a
jerk or making a really offensive joke!
- A good laugh is always a smart way to break the ice. For example, you would show this webpage to her, and have a laugh over what is written and the whole idea of having such a page as well.
- Learn to be spontaneous. Taking an improv acting class can help with ideas for breaking the ice, and can help you be confident with talking to new people. Ideas flow, and it becomes easier to enter into and disengage from conversation, and can help you be more comfortable with any situation.
2
Make
her laugh. Girls love guys with a great sense of humor. Don't be
offensive or mean with your humor, because you'll make her worry that you also
say bad things about her when she's not around. Instead, be smart with your
humor. Look at comedians like Louis CK and Aziz Ansari for some examples.
- This doesn't mean you should never take anything seriously though, or else you'll come off as a clown.
- Try to know her a little bit more before you attempt to be jocular (certain jokes for you might not be funny to her). Knowing her culture, her background, and most importantly things she likes will also be helpful.
3
Dress
like you mean business. Fashion isn't just for girls... it's for guys to be
recognized by girls too. Get a good pair of shoes. A pair of nice jeans will
also look cool...just make sure they fit and look nice on your body! Same goes
for shirts.
- Don't just buy one outfit. Clothes should never be worn more than twice a week.
4
Keep
yourself smelling fresh. Smell is
incredibly important in attracting people. While smelling amazing may not be a
deal breaker, being stinky is! You'll want to take some basic steps to fight
all of the normal body odors that come along with being human!
- Shower often, and not just with water. Actually use soap give yourself a good scrub to help keep your skin healthy. If you just came from PE or playing a sport, this step is going to be extra important. Some women are attracted to the smell of fresh sweat, but anything more than a few minutes old will scare them away!
- Get a basic clean-smelling or citrusy cologne or body spray. Use it only lightly. It should be a hint of smell, not a cloud. If you use just a hint, she'll want to lean in to smell you more...a cloud will keep her 5 feet (1.5 m) away!
5
Don't be threatening.
You have to remember that girls and women are often subject to violence and are
often cautious around guys for this reason. You have to make them feel
comfortable if you want them to get the chance to know you. One common mistake
is to be a little too much on the stalker side: being too familiar with the
girl and too clingy. You have to give girls space. If you stalk them and cling
too much, they'll feel harassed and they will start to avoid you.
- Be close, keeping in touch every once in a while, but remember she has friends and doesn't (or shouldn't) want to hang out with just you. Dropping cute text messages once a week or so is okay, though.
- Compliment her in a non-stalker way too. If she's wearing an interesting necklace, say "That's an interesting necklace" or "That's a cool necklace" NOT "I always like your necklaces".
6
Master
a talent. Everyone has a talent. Develop yours or learn a new one, because
talents are super sexy! You'll be sure to get her attention with your skill.
Just be sure that it's something you can be passionate about. The passion is
the real key, because it makes girls hope that you'll care about them as much
as you care about your craft.
- Think about learning to play an instrument. Girls love guys who can serenade them by playing music
